Q. Now that summer is finally here, I am planning a vacation with my husband and two teenaged children. We decided to ask my in-laws to join us. They are in their late 70s and we have never traveled with them, but they are both very active. What should we think through to make sure it’s a positive experience for everyone?
It’s wonderful that you’re including your in-laws on your vacation. What a great opportunity to enjoy time together as an extended family! Time off together in a new place with new shared experiences can strengthen family bonds and create lasting memories. It can also be an opportunity for your husband’s parents to share stories and pass down traditions to your children, and for your children to offer them a window into the world they’re growing up in. Your question doesn’t mention where you will be going, but here are a few general things to keep in mind as you prepare.
Balance the itinerary: Ask your in-laws about activities they would like. If you are planning high-energy activities for your teens, be sure to include some slower-paced activities and downtime in the schedule as well.
Make it comfortable for everyone: Look for hotels or rentals with elevators, ground-floor rooms, walk-in showers, and minimal stairs. Try to stay close to the places you’ll be visiting so there’s less time spent in transit.
Plan for meals and diets: Ask your in-laws about any dietary restrictions. Research restaurants with these in mind.
Consider health needs: Bring a list of medications, conditions, and emergency contacts. Pack for the climate. It’s a good idea to know where the nearest urgent care or pharmacy is, just in case.
Communicate Openly: Talk with your in-laws and your teens about the plans ahead of time to set expectations. Check in often during the trip and make adjustments to make sure everyone’s enjoying themselves.
Focus on enjoying time together: Take photos, share stories, play games, or do a group activity that bridges generations. These are the things that memories are made of.
With just a little thoughtful planning, this could be a vacation your whole family treasures. You might even find it’s the start of a new tradition you’ll all look forward to for years to come.
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Joan Hatem-Roy is the chief executive officer of AgeSpan, which serves the following cities and towns: Amesbury, Andover, Billerica, Boxford, Chelmsford, Danvers, Dracut, Dunstable, Georgetown, Groveland, Haverhill, Lawrence, Lowell, Marblehead, Merrimac, Methuen, Middleton, Newbury, Newburyport, North Andover, Peabody, Rowley, Salisbury, Salem, Tewksbury, Tyngsboro, Westford, and West Newbury.
First published in the Eagle-Tribune.
