Q: My mother passed away a little over a year ago after a long illness. My father was amazing as a caregiver and he was devastated after her death. They were married for almost 50 years. My siblings and I were shocked to discover Dad has been dating a woman he met at...
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Cleaning out a parent’s home can be daunting
Q: My parents passed away within a short time of each other. Now my siblings and I face the daunting task of cleaning out their house to get it ready to be sold. This is the home we grew up in, after 60 years the house is filled with furniture, belongings and...
Be wary of TV pitches for back and knee braces
Q: I've been having lower back pain for quite some time. It gets worse after too much physical activity. I've seen commercials on T.V. promoting back and knee braces covered by Medicare. If it isn't going to cost me anything is there any reason why I shouldn't call...
Telephones can be lifelines for isolated seniors
Q: I live in a small rural community with a population of less than 1,200 residents. I love our little town, but know that some elders who live in the “country” may not have someone to talk to or connect with if they need help. Years ago I lived in the Merrimack...
Medicare coverage for inpatient rehab varies
Q: Our church has a weekly social gathering for older adults. We provide light refreshments in addition to information gathering about topics related to aging. Several members have asked questions about who pays if they have to go to rehab in a nursing home. Does...
Seek support promptly after receiving diagnosis
Q: I went to the doctor with my older sister the other day. She was scared to go alone as she was afraid of bad news. She had fallen twice and had noticed her voice was softer and she had to strain sometimes to be heard. She was frightened that these issues were...
Food resources to help supplement an individual’s food needs
Q: On a recent Sunday I gave an older woman who attends our church a ride home. When we arrived at her residence she was unsteady as she got out of the car. I asked if she was not feeling well and she became teary eyed as she finally admitted she hadn't had a full...
Patient advocates can help with care planning
Q: My elderly parents live quite a distance from me. Due to chronic medical conditions they both have been hospitalized during the past year. My family and work responsibilities make it difficult to get away and travel back home each time they get sick. I make every...
Help is available for elders at tax time
Q: When I was working I had my taxes prepared by a CPA. I am now retired and since my income is significantly lower I can't really afford to have this done by a professional. I should be able to figure all the forms out but frankly it overwhelms me. With the new tax...
Working Women and Caregiving
Women, particularly those over 40, increasingly find themselves in the role of caregiver to an aging parent, often while raising their own children AND working outside the home. Many find themselves without much of a support system as they work to balance daily...