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Ask Joan: Caregivers deserve so much gratitude
February 25, 2025
Joan Hatem-Roy, Chief Executive Officer

Q. There are so many people I know who are caregivers for their family or work as professionals in the industry. What can I do to show my appreciation and support for those who provide such compassionate care?

This past week was National Caregivers Day, a dedicated moment to honor and celebrate the incredible caregivers whose contributions are vital to our families, communities, and healthcare systems. Each year, this special day reminds us of the irreplaceable role caregivers play in ensuring well-being and providing care for those who need it most. It’s an opportunity to reflect on how we can show our gratitude and support to these everyday heroes whether they’re family members or professional caregivers.

Caregivers do more than just assist with tasks; they are essential to the health, dignity, and quality of life of those they care for. Their impact is far-reaching:

  • They ease the strain on healthcare systems by allowing individuals to stay in their own homes.
  • They offer emotional support to families during tough times, acting as a source of strength in the face of illness or crisis.
  • They ensure consistent, high-quality care, which is crucial for people dealing with chronic illnesses or recovery

Whether they are providing care professionally or as a family member, caregivers are often the lifeline for those who cannot care for themselves, making their role truly invaluable. If you want to show your appreciation, here are a few meaningful ways to do so:

Say “thank you” in a way that counts. A heartfelt “thank you” goes a long way but taking it a step further can make it even more special. Write a personal note expressing how their care has impacted the person they’re helping or send a quick text or email to let them know how much you value their dedication.

Give a thoughtful gift. Caregivers often put others’ needs before their own, so a small token of appreciation can help remind them of their own worth. Consider thoughtful gifts like gift cards, self-care packages, or fresh flowers that brighten their space.

Offer a much-needed break. Caregiving can be all-consuming, both emotionally and physically, and many caregivers rarely get time for themselves. Offering them a break, even if just for a few hours, can make a world of difference.

Lend a helping hand. Caregivers are often juggling a number of responsibilities at once. Offering practical help, such as preparing a meal, handling a few chores, or even tackling some yard work, can ease their daily load and show your support.

Be a listening ear. Caregivers frequently feel isolated or unheard. Taking the time to listen to their stories, validate their feelings, and offer emotional support can be incredibly meaningful. Sometimes, just letting them express their joys, frustrations, and challenges can make all the difference.

Each act of appreciation helps build a culture that values and supports those who give so much of themselves. By showing your gratitude, you’re contributing to a society that uplifts caregivers and recognizes the powerful impact they have on the lives of others.

Are you caring for an older adult or need help finding healthy aging resources? Our experienced staff is available to help. Visit us online at www.agespan.org. You can also call 800-892-0890 or email info@agespan.org.

Joan Hatem-Roy is the chief executive officer of AgeSpan, which serves the following cities and towns: Amesbury, Andover, Billerica, Boxford, Chelmsford, Danvers, Dracut, Dunstable, Georgetown, Groveland, Haverhill, Lawrence, Lowell, Marblehead, Merrimac, Methuen, Middleton, Newbury, Newburyport, North Andover, Peabody, Rowley, Salisbury, Salem, Tewksbury, Tyngsboro, Westford, and West Newbury.

First published in the Eagle-Tribune.

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