Q: I have had one total knee replacement surgery and in the future will require the other knee to be replaced and possibly one hip surgery as well. I've had a few falls but fortunately was not injured other than bruises. I have made suggested changes within my house...
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Involve elders in decision to clean out old stuff
Q: My 93-year-old mother is still living in her own home. The basement is filled with things that have been stored for years. I am concerned that if she continues to deteriorate both physically and cognitively she will require placement in a long-term care facility....
Who cares for caregivers when they get sick?
Caregivers are not immune to common illness, e.g., a cold, flu, stomach virus. In fact, the stresses of caregiving often increase their risk of getting sick and may compromise their recovery. Physicians and other healthcare providers should recognize that their...
Losing ability to drive may lead to depression
Q: A few years ago my father decided my mother should no longer be driving due to her increasing confusion and a minor fender-bender. When this first occurred he was always willing to take her wherever she wanted to go. When his health started to deteriorate last...
Daughter’s grief distances her from family
Q: I am worried about my friend of more than 55 years and her daughter. The daughter's husband passed away in the early fall. This was not a happy marriage for the last 20 years but they remained together for their children's sake and for financial reasons. Although...
Dental care is important at any age
Q: Several of my neighbors in the elder housing where I live disagree on whether or not it is still important for us to have regular dental check-ups. Some of us don't have dental insurance so we have let this go the last couple of years. Can you settle this and tell...
Disabilities law was among Bush’s great achievements
Q: I spent hours watching television of the coverage of the memorial service for the late President George H.W. Bush. As a caregiver of a disabled spouse would you remind people of the role the late president had in the passage of the Americans with Disabilities Act?...
Counseling is available in wake of gas disaster
Q: A friend of mine moved her mother in with her after the recent gas explosions. The elder's home had minimal damages and all the repairs have been completed. Her mother is terrified to return to her home. She has not been sleeping well at night and cries at the...
“Do I Have Rights as a Caregiver?” Understanding the CARE ACT
As we close out the year and get ready for 2019, it’s important that caregivers are recognized for all the support they give daily to their loved one, and to make sure they understand their rights. Most caregivers know the sacrifices they make but many may be unaware...
Nutrition counseling helps manage diabetes
Q: Several weeks ago you mentioned in a column the possibility to receive nutrition counseling if you are a diabetic. Could you provide more information? I am interested to find out if this would be a good opportunity for me. A: Thanks for reminding us about this....